Rumblings – Chapter 147

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Officially, 23 people commit suicide in South Africa every day. That’s not a number I made up, it’s real and usually it’s people who suffer from depression and some of these mental illnesses. I say this because when a guy like Thulare says that they don’t want to live without you it’s something you take […]

Rumblings – Chapter 146

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I need us to ask ourselves a question: how does a grown person want to bring harm to a baby? How do you feel that is is okay to watch the child cry whilst we do whatever we are doing to them? Does your heart not break at the thought? I am a mother, my […]

Rumblings – Chapter 145

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People fight, we all know that. Some are loud and vocal whilst others prefer to do it quietly on the sidelines. I however think that only the lowest form of scum would come fight a person at their place of work. I am sorry I don’t care whether your man was cheating or not but […]

Rumblings – Chapter 144

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When you go to sleep at night you want to have nice dreams or not dream at all. You want to be at peace because when you are rested you think better. Unfortunately for me, I did not have that luxury. My world had been falling apart for a long time now, its not just […]

Rumblings – Chapter 143

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When people are angry they believe that they have the right to do whatever they want in the name of anger! I remember when I was young my sister once had a fight with a girl at school. She used to live close to us and she was older. She then came to my house […]

Rumblings – Chapter 142

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First things first when I left I went straight to the police station to report an assault. In all honesty they hardly ever follow up on those things. More importantly I asked for a restraining order against Mudenda saying he cannot be near me. This was all part of my plan. Of the people who […]

Rumblings – Chapter 141

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A woman must always have a plan. I don’t know why most of us don’t get that. So often as women we are left looking helpless because we don’t plan ahead. It’s almost as though we wait for something to happen before we react to it and even then for a while we act dazed […]

Rumblings – Chapter 140

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At times you have so many problems you just want to laugh. It’s a reaction better than having no reaction at all I think. At this moment though I am not sure it would have been appropriate but I was dying to laugh. It’s not because I am a bad person at all, or that I […]

Rumblings – Chapter 139

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I know some will think I went over the top but let me ask you this, when will we wake up and say a man went over the top? Is this after he has seduced you? No? Is this after he has seduced and made you pregnant? No? Is this after he has seduced you, […]

Rumblings – Chapter 138

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I don’t know if I am the only person who feels like whenever things start going right for me, something always comes up and goes wrong. I am not trying to feel sorry for myself or anything like that but it just seems like that’s my reality. I can never be happy for consecutive days. That’s […]

Rumblings – Chapter 137

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They often tell us that giving up as a mother is not an option. They do not tell this to the millions of father who left their children on the street. It’s always a woman who has to run after a man and fix everything. You think life is unfair for you as a man […]

Rumblings – Chapter 136

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I don’t know what to say right now. Refiloe had done what? I am all for beating the shit out of a girl who sleeps with a married man. I am totally for it. I don’t care how dis-empowering other women might think it is for us to attack each other but you should never […]